Once upon a time, there was a black woman who was fed up with the treatment she received from some black men she dated. For whatever reason, her relationships with these men never panned out. One day she reached her breaking point & vowed never to date black men again. She was on the hunt for her White knight in shining armor. She searched every interracial internet dating site like Afro-Romance.com, but also sites like J-Date (Jewish Date) because she was guaranteed that it would only be comprised of white (Jewish) men. There was no stopping her on her quest to find a white man. It didn’t matter that some of these men were just looking to experiment and have their antebellum experience. It also didn’t matter that some of these men treated her like shit, it was fine because they weren’t black.
Once upon a time, there was a black guy who was fed up with black women. He described them all as being gold diggers with nasty attitudes, even though his mother wasn’t one of those types. To hell with black women, is what he told himself one day, from here on out, White women were the way to go. His motto was, “Just Say No To Sistas”. No matter how many times a black woman approached him, she was shunned away. His idea of making it was to have a white woman on his arm.
White Meat Chasers!
Do you see how stupid both examples of these extremes sound? The reasoning? The rationale? The sad truth is that there’s a population of black people (sure there are white ppl who do the same exact thing, but that’s a whole ‘nother topic) out there who use this rationale, when it comes to dating. I find it odd that there are black people out there who make white people sound like the holy grail when it comes to interracial dating. It’s like they’re on some “I have arrived” shtick , once they have that white woman or man on their arm. Hell, I’ve date white men who’ve given me the same type of hell black men have. I also have black male friends who’ve said the same thing about white women giving them hell as well. What people fail to realize, there’s no easy way out of dating bullshit. It doesn’t matter if the person on your arm is black, yellow, white, purple or a hobbit.
Honestly, these people scare me. Not because of their so-called preferences, but because these people have the potential to bring children into the world. If they can’t seem to exhibit self-love for themselves and their ethnicity and only exude self-hate, their potential to raise children who are self-aware is slim. I’m all for people dating whomever they feel like it, I do it myself, but there’s a thin line between preferences and prejudices. Yes, you can be prejudice against the people who look the same exact way you do, and unfortunately, these people exist. If you come across a white meat chaser, give them a hug, because they desperately need it. I like all types of meat, just as long as it doesn’t give me salmonella poisoning.