“With this ring, I thee wed”, said the groom.
If you’re going to spend thousands of dollars on an engagement ring/wedding bands, a wedding, reception and honeymoon, but then turn around and NOT wear your wedding ring in public, then what’s the point?
I always thought a wedding ring signified that you have found a loving partner, a friend with whom you can share the rest of your life and therefore you wear and display it proudly. I know most women, take great pride in flashing their carats around, and making sure everyone takes notice, especially if it’s a huge rock. I remember wearing my own engagement ring
before I sold that shit and made sure everyone took notice for that very short period of time before I found out he was a sociopath.
But men, nowadays, it seems like some of you are on some other shit.
Chances are, if you’re a single woman, and you come across a man, usually the first thing you check for is a band on his finger. Right? No band= Single, Not Married…right? Basically that man is fair game, until he tells you other wise. Who are you to assume that a ringless man is a married man?
Why would a man not wear his wedding ring in public? Is it too bulky? It flashy? Too tight?
Is he a cheating ass dog? School me, because inquiring minds would like to know. If I was married, and found out my husband PURPOSEFULLY would remove his wedding ring, when he left his house, and I happened to find out, I would surely question his motives in doing so.
Women, what would you do if you found out your husband didn’t wear his ring in public? Would you question his motives? Faithfulness? Men, why would you not wear your wedding ring in public?