Yesha Callahan

Insert Obligatory Valentines Day Post Here

cupid is dead

It’s Valentines Day Eve and all through the house, not a creature is stirring, not even a….

Oh my bad, that’s the other highly commercialized holiday.

I’m not going to sit here and gripe about how much I detest Valentines Day  (well maybe just a little) but I just find it to be another useless time of year manufactured and perpetuated by card & chocolate makers. Even when I wasn’t single last year, the sociopath and I were returning from a week in Puerto Rico a day or two before Valentines Day and I didn’t want to deal with the hoopla then, so not much has changed.

I remember growing up and the whole concept of  Valentines Day was force feed in elementary school. Everyone had to bring in those little single sided cards you’d get from the grocery store and hand them out. I remember sitting at the kitchen table scribbling the same message over & over & over again, twenty something cards later, I was cursing under my breath because my hand caught a cramp. Oh and lets not forget the nasty little candy with the messages on them, to me they reminded me of fruit flavored Tums or chalk.

In 7th grade I have one memory stands out vividly. The girl who smelled like pee (you know every school had one), decided to join in and give out cards. I felt bad for her because every time she passed someone’s desk and gave them a card, you could hear the laughter from the students. I remember seeing her during recess sans cards and with tears in her eyes. Now I’m not sure whatever became of her, but, I’m hoping her Valentines Days have drastically improved. Actually, I think I’ll look her up on Facebook, because everybody and their momma (well probably just my mother) has a Facebook page nowadays.

Now that I have a child of my own, I don’t force the idea of Valentines Day on him, but I still see schools haven’t changed. This week he came home with a letter requesting snack donations for their little party.

Now here’s what I dont’ understand.

It’s ok for Valentines Day to be celebrated in the schools, but it’s not ok for each kid, regardless of their religion to pray in school? It’s ok for kids to believe that there was actually some  cross-dressing midget with a cloth diaper flying around  assaulting people with his bow & arrow in hopes that they’d fall in love, but it’s not ok for a kid to pray to either Jesus, Allah or whomever?

So needless to say, my son will not have any cards to give out or little chalky tasting heart candies with messages on them. When I did give him the option earlier this week to hand out cards, his only question was, did he have to pay for them himself or if I would, because if it had to come out of his own money, he’d rather spend it on something worthwhile. Now, I’m not sure if that thought process will follow him down the road when a female tries to get him to buy her something for Valentines Day when he’s older, but he definitely gets his sarcasm honestly.

So this year for Valentines Day, more than likely I’ll spend it doing my taxes, maybe grab dinner & drinks with a “friend”, but there will be no pomp & circumstance. Honestly, I look forward to the day after, when all of the boxes of candy go on sale at CVS, it’s a recession, 50% off, you can’t be that!

Happy Valentines Day!


*No cross dressing midgets in diapers with bows & arrows on their back were harmed during the writing of this blog*

  1. February 13, 2009 - Reply

    WTF? Pee girl??? You are hilarious!!
    A cross dressing midget with a cloth diaper? LMAO!
    Seriously, find yourself a stage so you can get paid to make people laugh! I’ve been reading for some time now, and I love how you have variety on your blog! Dealing with issues & humor, gotta love it!
    Oh & happy valentines day!

    • February 13, 2009 - Reply

      @MPierce

      Thank-you for the compliment & comment!
      Sometimes in life, humor is the only thing that’ll get me through the day!
      Enjoy your Valentines Day as well!

  2. February 13, 2009 - Reply

    Buying candy the day after isn’t such a bad idea after all!! I have to remember that one!

  3. February 13, 2009 - Reply

    THe girl that smelled like pee?!?!??! UMMMMM EWWWWWW! Someone should have whooped her mother!
    LOL @ D. WOods video AND I’m SO happy she doesn’t have that ugly “mop” on her head anymore. She looks so much better.

    • February 15, 2009 - Reply

      @Mimi

      Yes, I’m glad she finally did something with that hair of hers…lol

  4. February 14, 2009 - Reply

    Meet ya at CVS, girl…lol.
    Happy V Day :-)!

    • February 15, 2009 - Reply

      @curvygurl

      I got my candy..you get yours? lol

      • February 15, 2009 - Reply

        @[fung'ke] [blak] [chik]

        LOL!Just picked up some from Target.

  5. February 16, 2009 - Reply

    Very romantic post…awwww
    YAY D. Woods…mmmmmmmmmmmmm
    eclectik-discussion.com

  6. February 16, 2009 - Reply

    damn, they killed kenny, i mean cupid lol

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