Yesha Callahan

Dumb Ass of the Week: Ray J

There are a lot of people out there who’s 15 minutes of fame should have ended years ago. Ray J’s (Norwood) first claim to fame was that he was Brandy’s little brother. Then he started his musical career with a few releases that were mediocre at their best. But of course, his crowing glory was his sex tape with Kim Kardashian. Everyone and their mother, got to see how ‘little’ Ray J wasn’t. So you’d think after all of this, his 15 minutes would be over.

But wait, it gets better.

For the past week, his song, “Snakes In The Grass”, has been circulating around the internet. Normally, I’m used to misogynistic music, I mean isn’t that the basis of most hip-hop nowadays? But, I was amazed and disgusted to hear some of the lyrics of this song by Ray J.

Here’s are a few verses:

A lot of snakes in the grass
gotta keep the grass cut
I pull up to the club with henny in the cup
i'm a mf' baller in my cherry tux
and now a n*gga is rich so b*tch wanna fuck
so here's a little weed and "e" and stuff
make sure you don't bleed and stuff
make sure it's not your bloddy week you slut
and now i'm pulling out the club in my cranberry coupe
a lot of nasty hoes give it up
so i met this young girl who was chillen in the cut
she told me at 3 o'clock meet me at the pizza hut
and she was was real freeky and told me to do it in her butt butt 
so i did it in her butt butt
right in the back of the pizza hut
i'm a freak that's why i don't give a fuck

When I heard this song, I literally wanted to vomit. I’ve never heard anything so trashy and demeaning to women EVER put to ‘music’. This song is the epitome of misogyny! I’m not an advocate of violence, but I’d like to play the role of a misandrist for just a few minutes, and beat Ray J upside his head for even having the balls to sing about such bull. I seriously think anyone who can come out of their face to even think of those thoughts in their head seriously needs psychological counseling because he truly sounds like a sexual deviant! I’m sure this is a song his mother and sister would be proud of!

  1. October 31, 2008 - Reply

    He should truly be ashamed of himself. I’ve never heard such garbage before in my life!

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  3. November 1, 2008 - Reply

    Really Ray J? In 2008. Really? Damn.

    • November 1, 2008 - Reply


      my sentiments exactly!

      • November 1, 2008 - Reply

        @[fung'ke] [blak] [chik]

        His mama and sister should just whoop his ass for even trying to record that for posterity. Again. In 2008? It’s like finding out someone is still smoking or selling crack. Isn’t downgrading and disrespecting women THAT OVERTLY —played out? I know it still happens in a “Soulja boy superman that… incomprehensible kinda way but WOW. Who’s the A&R person that green lit that project? Yuck
        He’s probably not registered to vote either.
        (end of rant) 🙂

  4. November 1, 2008 - Reply

    Ray J has really been acting up since that sex tape. I guess he figures with the “package” he’s carrying around, he can do and say what he wants.
    He’s disgusting and lame as hell.

    • November 1, 2008 - Reply


      Lame is an understatement. I guess some people will do anything for attention.

  5. November 1, 2008 - Reply

    He really has to be sick in the head to even feel comfortable singing this crap. Because ANY rational or sane man would not even think to put that trash out in public even if that’s how he view women. Jacka**.

  6. November 8, 2008 - Reply

    What a lame.

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